Looking through the viewfinder of your camera, a young couple is holding hands walking peacefully along the water’s edge. The weather is unseasonably warm making the Valentine’s Day session more enjoyable for you and your client.

The golden glow of a sunset glistens across the water illuminating the couple. The brightness isn’t lost upon the water; it is visible in their faces. Stopping for a moment they turn and embrace. Expressions of love, adoration and desire are reflected between them. He whispers softly in her ear. Her eyes light up and she smiles demurely. Gently they kiss until the sun is almost down before leaving with hands locked together returning home. For some of you, this was a familiar image as you have either been in love before or have photographed it. Capturing the expressions and emotion for some photographers comes as natural as capturing the news does to a photojournalist. For others, this scene, as g-rated as it was, still made you uncomfortable or even blush at the thought of photographing it.

Love can be the most exciting and yet challenging thing to photograph. As a photographer you have the ability to see what the person feels and capture it. For some, this can be a challenge. Photographing people in love can be embarrassing. You have to realize, it may be hard for you to photograph, but imagine how hard it is for the subjects to loosen up and show affection knowing they are being watched. You have to be invisible and patient. Give them time to relax. Discuss expectations and boundaries on both sides before starting a session. Allow some giggles and embarrassment in the beginning of a session to help loosen everyone up. These first few relaxed frames capture true happiness and laughter which will later be treasured by the client. Once everyone loosens up, make yourself invisible and start shooting.

Let the moments come naturally. Think of what defines love and how to capture that essence. Holding hands, kissing, hugs, smiles and laughter all are obvious signs of love. The challenge is capturing at the right angles and time. Don’t direct unless absolutely necessary so you don’t break the couple’s spell. You want them to forget you are there and concentrate on each other and expressing the love they share for you to capture. Don’t be afraid to interrupt if you see a moment that would otherwise be lost.

Some other tips to consider involve lighting. The glow of a sunset/sunrise or even candles is much more romantic than just ordinary sunlight or man-made lighting. You can create the scene you want with any light, but these are the most popular sources. You can also use props such as flowers (roses are the most popular), rose petals, chocolate, valentines candy, stuffed animals, cards and lace. You’re not limited to people for Valentine’s Day Photography. These items are also great on their own when used for artistic photos. Use a macro lens and focus on a single rose from a gift bouquet. Use a water bottle and mist it with water for added interest. Crystalline candy dishes are great displays for chocolate and candy especially when surrounded by roses. These are only a few simple examples meant to encourage you to come up with your own.

Another form of photography popular for Valentine’s Day is Boudoir Photography. This form is also popular for weddings, anniversaries and other times when someone wishes to add some sugar and spice to their relationship. Boudoir Photography isn’t for everyone and definitely requires some proper planning. Women are more likely than men to request a Boudoir session, so the majority of my tips are for them, but mostly apply to men as well. When choosing your boudoir photographer, make sure the photographer uses a model release form and that you read it very carefully. Ask questions and request changes if there is something you aren’t comfortable with. Get everything in writing. Pay attention to how and where your photos will or can be used due to the private nature of the photos. Photographers technically claim copyright to what they create, but it’s also your body and money so only work with someone willing to make you comfortable. There’s always someone less modest that can be used for their portfolio. You want to do something to spice up your relationship, but not affect your image at work or with your friends. Not all photographers respect boundaries as they should, so be careful. If a photographer doesn’t make you feel comfortable or isn’t willing to make you comfortable then go to someone else. Never let a photographer make you feel uncomfortable by requesting that you do something that wasn’t agreed upon. Protecting yourself before the shoot with a model release form and consultation will prevent the majority of the issues.

You also need to pay attention to what you wear. Some laces and lingerie can to be too sheer under bright lights revealing more than you may intend. Don’t wear anything several hours before the session that would leave lines on your skin and if you have tan lines, try to even them out before scheduling your session. If you have any major skin flaws you want removed, find a photographer that is also skilled with Photoshop or other programs. Not only can most flaws be removed, but minor weight adjustments are also possible. Also consider how close you are with your partner. If you feel they would be jealous at the thought of someone photographing you like this, don’t do it. Above all, be positive and happy. Your moods can be captured on camera and if you’re doing this for your significant other, you want look your best. Take a discrete friend for your protection and to help you relax.

As for the photographers, you already know your client is the number one most important part of Boudoir Photography. The session is for the client and their significant other. Ensuring their privacy and that they are comfortable should come first. When photographing, keep the mood soft. Use natural light or soft light sources rather than harsh flash. Suggestive relaxed poses are best compared to forceful glamour model poses. The eyes are the window to the soul; don’t forget to capture their expressions along with occasional smiles. Be relaxed and professional. Never touch your model without permission. If you are a male photographer, it is best to have a female companion so that the client feels more comfortable and also for your protection in case an issue arises in the future. As for locations, respect the client and keep them off-limits and private during the session. Try to keep the temperature comfortable and away from cold drafts. Fluffy and freshly cleaned pillows and other soft props are much more relaxing than cold plastic or metal chairs. Once the session is over, don’t discuss anything until the client is dressed and comfortable.  The client expects you to make them look their best, so help you both and discuss key areas such as proper attire and share makeup and hair tips to ensure they feel and look sexy.

Valentine or Boudoir Photography is freezing that moment of love in time to be treasured forever. Life photographed real and unscripted…lifestyle photography as it happens. Be a journalist. Your story is love; your characters are your clients.

About the author: Amber Flowers is a photographer, digital artist and writer most known for her infrared photography and the ‘fine art’ feel to her work. She is a member of The League of Creative Infrared Photographers and Founder of Southern Kentucky Photographer’s Club. Amber resides in Glasgow KY with her husband, two children and several pets. You can learn more about her on her website: www.soulgazephotography.com